When we are kids, we dream of becoming our parents with the notion that we will know it all just like them and no one will ever tell us what to do. We will be the only masters around and be the ruler of our lives (at least).
Back to present and we know that most of what we thought was a beautiful illusion that is better left at that for that age or the entire growing up phase until you realise that not one but several factors control our lives.
Of course we can steer our destiny with the right decisions and right circumstances, nevertheless there will be moments when all we need is wisdom that can show UA the light at the end of the tunnel. We seek that wisdom all around and many a times undermine the fact that it could be lying closer than we thought.
Our family, especially parents who have nothing to win or lose from us, they have seen life’s toughest battles and know that phases pass if we keep patience and stay calm in seemingly worst situations.
The key to obtaining such wisdom is listening with an open mind and not just ears. At the same time we should not stop ourselves from analyzing the pros and cons of applying the suggestions that we get from them. There can be a few errors because of the information and scenarios presented to get opinions from others. We aometimes are not absolutely truthful in complaining, we are biased. The only one who knows this is our selves.
So before acting on the suggestions we should really understand the deeper consequences which should be positive for your largerlife picture.