We worry a lot! Don’t we?
we worry as if our life is never going to end or as if this is the end of our life! Either ways, we only waste our precious time when our focus should be on the more productive things. After an exhaustive episode of worries that may last for days at end, I feel defeated by myself.
i think we cheat ourselves when we take life for granted when something unpleasant becomes so important that it takes up 90% of our thought process. If we find a solution, it’s absolutely worth the effort, but if we know there is no solution to certain issues and certain people problems, we should put it to rest and move on to better and more beautiful things.
It’s like holding up a heavy glass of water in hand even while we are asleep, but our focus is on the glass which should not spill! So we lose our sleep, focus, happiness and peace for that glass of water which is happy in its place and has nothing to do with us. We give it so much importance that it becomes centre of living, thus a simple unimportant thing takes over and we get carried away in the process.
let us start worrying a little less, start living a little more. Every moment is precious and will not come back to us. Let us make it positive. It can be difficult but not impossible!
thanks! Take care!
Posted in human behaviour, Life, Relationships
Tagged happiness, happy, life, live, moment, peace, precious, time, worries, worry
Today I just had a cursory look at my son and it reminded me how he looks exactly what he looked as an infant. Then people used to tell me he looks like me, and now they say he looks like his dad! I am happy with both the situations, although my hubby is on the better side ;)
What disturbs or tickles me is how people are so worried about whom a baby/child looks like, seriously! is it so important?? Have you ever wondered whom does Obama or Bill Gates look like? Mom, Dad or grandparents?? Or is this the basis of taking big decisions where humans are involved? Quite often I have seen parents and grandparents too worried about the looks of their child! For what reason? What kind of attributes are you passing on to that child? eventually s/he will also accept the fact that facial features are more important than grace, dignity and generosity.
Ok, looks impress for the first instance that we see someone. And then it may not. What really matters is how that good or average looking person behaves with his peers, juniors, seniors, family and friends and for that matter with anybody that s/he meets. Do we forgive a beauty queen for a crime, or do we punish an average looking one for a good deed? There is no copyright issue here.
We need to move on and stop worrying and fretting over such trivial issues that help no one. Looks cannot be changed, positive attitude can be developed, qualities can be nurtured, education can be provided, talent can be honed. Looks change for the super rich and that percentage is really low in our society. The rich and the middle class are busy earning and saving money for a better future and they take pride in a happy family and social life. So let us (the rich and middle class) focus on what will grow us a beautiful society with compassionate individuals.
Looks don’t matter!!! What say?
Posted in Attitude, Child Psychology, Children, human behaviour
Tagged average, baby, child, good, infant, looks, looks dont matter, parents, worried, worries
I wrote about worries my little one has.
Yesterday when I was going to visit my dentist, I was told by my son to be careful, don’t touch the tools of the doctor, they are dangerous :)
what a lovely, caring thought!